Here is an excerpt from a blog written by Duane Vander Klok for Walking by Faith:
Ernest Hemingway’s short story about the broken relationship between a
Spanish father and his teenage son, Paco, highlights this desire.
Paco ran away from his home to Madrid, and his grieving father looked
everywhere for him. In desperation, the father placed an ad in the Madrid
newspaper that read,
“Dear Paco, meet me in front of the newspaper office tomorrow at noon. All is
forgiven. I love you.”
The next morning, 800 hopeful men named Paco were standing in front of the
Are you Paco? Are you in desperate need of forgiveness? Does your heart ache for the relief? This process, a gift given to us ultimately through Christ, is a beautiful perfect gift that not only benefits the recipient but the person granting the forgiveness in a multitude of ways.
But before we confirm whether or not you are Paco, let's get straight to the point: have you forgiven yourself through Christ who grants it to you freely without score? Without score, without holding onto hurt, and with your focus on letting go have you forgiven yourself? Do you have a willingness to forgive yourself to gain a long lasting internal peace. Is this you? Have you truly forgotten to forgive yourself? Paco's father may forgive him, but he must forgive himself in order to gain.
Harboring unforgiveness in your heart weighs you down and takes up a large amount of precious real estate of your mental and emotional state. Your mental health, social health, emotional health, physical health all rely on your ability to forgive yourself. Christ has already forgiven you, its your turn.